Introduction — you don’t want a mega‑party, you want a day with soul
If your wedding is 40–100 guests, with elders, kids and a clear emotional focus, this guide is for you.

The fear is valid: “we don’t want a nightclub vibe” or anyone feeling unwell due to noise. We have good news: you can have beautiful music and warmth without harshness.

The problem with many sound services for small weddings

• Oversized PA systems for the space.
• One volume fits all across the whole day.
• Little respect for silences and conversations.
• Speaker placement chosen for looks, not coverage.

Result: tired guests, unclear voices and an energy that doesn’t match the intimacy of the day.

What a slow sound design looks like

Music that supports, not invades. A design that cares for volume, coverage and timing.

Practical keys

• Distributed speakers so you cover the space without “shouting.”
• Different levels for each moment:
  • Ceremony: clarity and emotion; clean mic, music that supports (doesn’t mask).
  • Cocktail: comfortable conversation; warm playlists (Soul, Blues, Soft Indie, Bossa Nova, Trip Hop).
  • Dinner: cosy ambience, no yelling; measured peaks for toasts (≤3 min).
  • Dancing: a zone for those who want to dance without forcing everyone (dance area + chat areas).
• Clean transitions, so the mood doesn’t break.

Turn your story into a soundtrack

• Share key songs from your life (trips, seasons, people).
• Build lists by scenes:
  • “Songs that feel like home.”
  • “Songs that are a hug.”
• Add tiny rituals:
  • A toast with a specific song.
  • A slow dance with those who don’t dance much any more.
  • A small family moment (soft choruses, childhood theme).

Caring for noise‑sensitive people (without losing the experience)

• Seat elders and kids away from the main speakers.
• Tell your DJ if there are guests with sensory sensitivity to tune levels and frequencies.
• Shape a segment of emotional dancing rather than “festival mode.”
• Use warm lighting (not glaring) to match the intimate vibe.

Mini‑checklist (save it)

• ✅ Speakers well distributed and moment‑based volume.
• ✅ Clear mics and supportive music in the ceremony.
• ✅ Cocktail and dinner with easy conversation.
• ✅ Opt‑in dance floor: those who want to dance; others keep chatting comfortably.
• ✅ Sound rituals with meaning.

Wrap‑up

An intimate wedding doesn’t need more decibels to be unforgettable—it needs care. With slow sound design, your music is felt, your words are heard, and the day keeps its soul.

Want an intimate, respectful soundtrack? Message me and we’ll design your slow sound together.